Her daughter has been fighting lymphoma & acutely ill past 6months. She and family left for NM over 35+ years and lived well with trips home to visit regularly. Mom has been longing to see her daughter and the visit didn't happen 2016. She spoke with her last week.. Her daughter was close to her heart but too far away. Mom knows of her illness but forgets and we do keep telling her how serious and that her recovery is not going to happen. Just yesterday I told her that all was not good and Carolyn wasn't eating .My husband is Carolyn's sister and we are heartbroken. We live across the way from mom and we are her caregiveers and only family here at home. What to say what to do . Need some input . God give us all strength.