we are both in our late 60s. w 4 aging parents over 85. I still work full time. we have no life, can't entertain, and going out of town is a nightmare. we fight all the time, and she has ruined my 10 yr marriage. I have considered divorce to get out. we can't leave her alone she is blind and deaf, we get no support from his family they say she needs to to in a nursing home and there is no money for caregivers. I am so upset all the time that my hair has started to fall out from stress and I am getting ready to start on meds for anxiety/depression. when we married I did not sign up for this. she accuses me of stealing from her & had a lock put on her bedroom door but she is not senile by any means. I have bent over backwards to help her and I feel like an outcast in my own home. my husband is avoiding nusing home placement and I don;t know what else to do.