Its very sad, the upsetting part is he always is paranoid and thinks we are hiding things from him so when he asked about his folks accusing my husband of knowing something was wrong and not telling him thats why we decided to tell him the truth and he took it so hard that we just don't know what to do if it comes up again. Would love to hear from anyone who might have gone through this problem. Always on edge concerned about the right or the wrong of this whole mess. Excuse it that sounds harsh, but there are days when it just feels that way. then we have the days were were blessed with a peaceful Larry.