I moved my grandparents from Florida to Texas because my grandparents had no family around them and were getting in trouble at the assisted living home there. I am still in my first year of their care. They are in a memory care facility here because he walked off down the street while we were moving them in. At times, they are a joy to be around, but many times the conversations are so stressful. My grandpa calls me regularly to tell me he needs supplies, and that he needs to go check on his house in Florida. I visit once a week to check on them and get them anything that they need. I work full time, have a family , and my teenage kids are very busy in their sports. I am completely overwhelmed with everything that I have to get done. When I get these calls or when i visit him and he tells me how miserable he is; It take everything I have not to cry. He has no hobbies, and gives me no ideas of how I can make him happy. I want to make him happy, but I know that moving facilities will not make him happy; their neighbor who helped them in FL said they had moved into 3 different facilities within 6 months. How can I tell him that I cant drive him back home, and that this IS his home? How can I get him to be happy or at least content? When my grandpa gets agitated my grandma gets agitated and anxious. She knows that he gets confused, but she has dementia too and will usually follow along with whatever he says.