I have been caring for my FIL who has Alzheimers for 6 months now 5 days a week/10 hours a day. It is now summer time and I am needed in the field with my husband. Two of the daughters want me to say they can schedule me for 2 days a week. They are elementary school teachers and are off for the summer. It really isn't realistic for them to expect that of me, as on a farm there is no schedule. You work every day and long hours. I have found a memory care facility not far away and mentioned it to the daughters and they just say they will look at it and gather info. which I have already told info on the facility. The oldest daughter said there is no plan to move him anywhere at this point. There are only 2 openings left so they need to at least get him on the list. I truly believe this facility would be so beneficial to my FIL as they have activities and outings they do daily. I feel I have gone above and beyond for my husband's family/FIL and I want to get my life back. I'm a RN and would like to get back to my career. My husband is in agreement with me but two of the daughters keep at me wondering when I will help take care of the their dad. The youngest daughter is agreeable to my FIL being placed in this memory care facility. What and how do I say I'm done without causing hard feelings and them being angry with me or is that just inevitable? I know this is lengthy but I am between a rock and a hard place! HELP!