She was recently diagnosed with moderate dementia and we were told that she should definitely not be living alone anymore. She is still with it enough to express her displeasure at the prospect of living in an AL community and believes she will eventually be able to return home to her apartment. She will definitely not want memory care although we think there is a good chance she will not be able to stay in assisted living for too long. Should I have the conversation about such a move a few weeks before it is scheduled or right before it happens? Any other advice is much appreciated.