Mom is on social security. I feel she should save her money and she does have some debts that she is paying off. She was completely unprepared to be dependent on others in her old age. She is starting to have some extra saved up. She seems to eat more when we go out to eat than when I cook at home. But I don’t like her spending the money. Plus, I have to spend my own money and I don’t want to spend my own money going out to eat more than a few times a week. My parents both made terrible financial decisions all of their lives, which is partly why she is now living with me. I worry that we are being irresponsible with her finances if she eats out as often as she wants to. But I worry when we are at home that she isn't getting enough calories. Am I just worrying too much?