Mom has been in a retirement home for about 3 months and keeps begging to go back to her previous home for an overnight stay. For her safety we had to make a decision to move her into a retirement community. I am just not healthy enough to take care of her and my husband will not tolerate me losing my own health to care for her. She constantly puts the guilt trip on me which is still affecting my emotional health. I am afraid that a visit back to her house will make things worse and she might refuse to leave. She claims she won't, but I am so torn between what life to lead now. Anyone had any situation like this?