I need an opinion from the gang here. My father's best friend died yesterday. He was 93. Dad is 94, in NH, moderate dementia, often says horrible things to people. At other times he can be quite charming to others. It depends on what day it is....and you can never predict it.
I know I should take him to the funeral next week, but I am torn. Out of respect for the family, I do not want him to make a scene. I feel disloyal by feeling this is a dilemma.....looking for your advice here!