it one of the main reasons he is in a nursing home. Dad does not want me to change him and clean him up, and i don't want to. But I feel he would do better at home and have someone come in to help and get physical therapy. Right now for the most part nursing home staff is good. But if one more person tells me your dad want walk again, your dad is old, he want get better, you need to get use to this. Enough. don't we need to give him a chance to get stronger and not dismiss his physical need to get out of bed. Dad is mentally okay. OMG this is exhausting for me and him.