Mom and one sibling have started cancelling visits and care from other siblings and home care. In most instances would be glad to have a break from caring for both parents in their home. Concerned because Mom and one sib are verbally abusive to Dad (and other sibs). How do I take care of self while insuring that Dad is getting proper care and is safe healthwiase, dementia-wise and emotionally.
Nasty mom and brother around, just ignored there nastiness, because I new I will never win with them.
I supported him fully, until I stood by his bedside when he died. I thank GOD for that oppertunity to be there.
My mother and my brother wasn't by his bedside when he died. Make sacrifices for him. Good luck and blessing.