I'm supportive of my fiance supporting my mother inlaw. However my fiance and hus mother have made theur own agreement that the monthly check he is sending her is going towards the house. They have aledger and are tracking it.
He isn't saving for retirement but insists the money he is sending to his mother is retirement because when she passes some day, she'll leave him the house.
My gut says this is not going to work out.
Any advice? I don't want him to stop helping her but also save for retirement. Am I wrong for feeling this way?