My Dad seems to have an aversion to the toilet. He will let my Mom know that he has to pee, etc. and will go into the bathroom, but it takes forever to get him to sit on the toilet! He will stand there, shuffling his feet, looking at his fingers, anything other than sitting down. We got him a 3-in-1 toilet seat with hands so he'd be able to push himself up if that was his problem, but the few times he used it he just squirted onto the floor or complained that the hole was too small! Any of you have suggestions that you've used with your loved ones? I've suggested his use the walk-in shower when peeing but sometimes he has a "phobia" about that, too. I know someone once suggested using a colored seat; we've tried putting the blue cleaning tablets in to make the water blue; nothing seems to work. Help!