!!! Please help! I have to say I already have my hands full with two kids under 5 with autism! I'm already burnt out dealing with their therapy and needs....then there's my dad! He is 65,newly retired, and is the meanest most stubborn man I've ever met! He lives in the same 1965 trailer he has since I was a child and it was a total pice of sh%t then and you can't even imagine how bad now! I counted 25 holes in the ceiling, floor is giving out, black mold everywhere, bathroom and kitchen so dirty you can't wash your hands. There is a layer of dirt on everything in this place. I have tried and tried to get him into anything-apartment, another mobile home, a house! He won't do a d@mn thing! I can't and visit anymore because I basically have to burn my clothing after being there....my kids and husband have not been there...NOPE . Not worth their health! How sad is this?! I've tried to be nice, and I've been a complete @sshole! Nothing has worked! I've offered to do everything to help-set up for remodeling to come, but they even said the place is not worth repairing at all and he needs to move asap because it's a 100% fire hazard! I am an only child and none of "the family" has anything to do with him (which isn't that hard to imagine why). What do I do?! Thank you in advance!