Today is my DH birthday. Unfortunately I have been
sick and my daughter also. DH stepdaughter. She
originally was going to visit and we were going to
have a small celebration. Now his daughter calls from Israel and asks if he had a cake not knowing
what was happening. She hung up before I could
tell her. I feel like every time his family calls they
just cause more problems for me. Remember I blocked the annoying brother. And then they ask him if he remembers certain people. Isn't that wrong? Would love input.
If she was talking to you, then don't worry about it. She is far away. Clueless on what goes on daily for you.
Not worth even thinking about. Your plate is full enough. You never cared for them, in all likelihood and you never will. And you don't HAVE to.
My husband was against it but there is nothing you
can do about it. That is their life now. We celebrate
Christmas. He never had a close relationship with
the grandchildren unfortunately. That is why he
became so close to my one and only grandchild
that he adores and she adores her Papa. I appreciate your input. Makes so much sense. It is
water under the bridge now.
”Yes, we had cake and strawberry ice cream with sprinkles.” “Sure, we went for a walk outside. He enjoyed it.”
It seems kind of sneaky, but so what? When you’re dealing with dunces, you need to protect yourself.
You don't need to explain yourself to anyone.
Did the conversation make DH feel bad, or just you?
Some things we just have to let go.
forget about it by tomorrow. Thanks.