I was just signed up by the va as my mom's fiduciary. She has cognitive impairment and my sister is taking advantage of that and trying to convince mom to send her money. She is trying to make me look like the bad guy, very hard to get through to my mom that this is not the case. I am also POA, for the last 5 years my sister and I have been butting heads. She doesn't want mom near her (fla.) only interested in money and her finances, doesn't trust me with anything. I can't get throught their heads that I have moms best interest. This very stressful and I want to give up, don't know what to do? Is anyone out there a fiduciary?