At least with getting her help in the home? I was trying to help. Medicare will pay for someone to come in twice a week to help mom get dressed and washed. I assumed the woman would come in the morning. Mom calls me and tells me they might not come untill three in the afternoon. Then she says it's more trouble than it's worth. My brother is helping her dress in the morning and helping her into robe she uses as nightgown in evening. But he does it very reluctantly. And I'm not sure how much help he gives her. She has a torn rotatorcuff. And uses a walker. Is 89 years old and frail. She was complaining of getting washed in late afternoon when her house is cold and drafty. She has heater in bathroom. And with help dressing it wont take an hour or more to get dressed. She complained about having to wait for the woman. And about change in schedule. She only leaves the house for doctor appointments. What schedule? She said she didnt want her to come the same day as physical therapist. Cause one might come at two oclock and the other person might cone a half hour later. Now I wish I didnt tell thephysical therapist to try to get mom to agree. Also, I'm stuck geting the phone calls from the person dressing mom. Then call mom to tell her when the woman is comming. Mom wont answer the phone. Answering machine is hardly ever on she doesnt like it. Brother wont answer phone. If im going to get calls twice a week. If person cant come same time each time. I hope mom does cancel it. I have to do special code so mom will answer phone. And she keeps calling me. Did the physical therapist call you yet?