My mom was recently placed in a skilled nursing facility and my dad has very severe COPD. My sister and I were appointed co-POA and co-executors. She was chosen to handle their care and I was chosen to handle business matters. We are in the process of emptying their house and putting the home on the market. I am working with my dad on how to do all this. I have talked with realtors and auctioneers and have not yet exhausted all possibilities. Each time something new comes up I have gone to my sisters house to talk everything over with dad in her home and in her family's presence. They say nothing to me and my dad is so grateful for my help. Every move I have made in this is done while thinking of the best for my dad and my 4 sisters (3 out of town) and their families. My sisters family who is caring for dad jump into everything I have tried to do and make decisions when I am not present. They have talks with dad all day long everyday about all this and have so much influence over him because he forgets what he has been told or is confuses it all. He is constantly praising them and telling me what wonderful people they are and doesn't know how hard I have worked with little help to get the house cleaned up and ready and working to get it sold. My sister does not tell me her thoughts on any subject but runs to her family and that keeps them in the middle of it all. She can't make a decision on her own. She won't work with me. They don't work with me. They tell her what to do and when they see something needs to be done they run and do it without discussing anything with me. They don't like information I give dad and run to work on it themselves in their own way without telling me while I am still working with what I have started. I am so fed up with them and don't know how to stop them from crossing all my boundaries without even thinking of me. I have had this going on since January and I get nowhere with them when I try to talk to them about my situation. My sister and her military family do not listen to me and go on with all this like I don't exist and they are in charge of everything. They do exactly what they want and always have. I am at such a loss. I have worked with 2 counselors, the nursing home directors and my doctor and all of them have told me their behavior is appalling. They have told me to tell them what I am going to do and stand my ground. How on earth do I do that when they are so selfish and undisciplined and still do just what they want? This is killing me because I don't know how long my dad will be around. I want nothing to do with that family but in order for me to see him I have to go to their home. I am so angry right now that I can't think straight. He is my father........not my father-in-law or my grandfather. Where is my place in this? What does POA mean to a family that cares only about themselves doesn't care one bit about me? I have no leverage to keep my place in this. Is there something a attorney can do to help me?