We are on our 7th caretaker who comes in 9hrs. 3 days a week, while I work out of town. My husband is at home after work. My mother puts up with caretakers, but after 2-3 months hates them and wants them out of "her" house.(she also has lost her sense of reality). We want to keep her in our home, but it's so frustrating. We are burned out. My husband and I have't had a vacationn..alone in 3 years. Any recomedations? ASL didn' work either.