My mother has a number of serious illnesses and Dementia is worsening. My son and fiance live here in her home with me picking up the slack if I have a Dr. appt, etc. I know that they will be moving out soon and my doctor has told me to start preparing now to place her somewhere because the fear of Alzheimer is becoming a day to day reality. When my son moves out, I will be left with the burden? of care giving for her 24/7. I do have resources given to me a while back and plan to use them when the move occurs. However, I need to know how to begin the paperwork,etc. and all that goes into moving her to a place of safety and how in the world to get her to cooperate when she has reminded me time and time again that do or die...she plans to die right here in her home. Help..