My stepmother has been admitted to hospital with pneumonia. They sold there home recently and has left her granddaughter in charge of the money. Stepmother told me that my father has no money left they have been marrierd for 40 years. Stepbrother told me he was not going to babysit my father and that it was going to cost me to hire someone to take care of my father. When we check on him he had not eaten all day My father stated he ate and the food was in the bathroom. I have called elderly affairs to investigate but how do I get power of attorney for my father and who is responible for paying the bill.