He's 93 and just married 6.24.14. 3 sibs are outa any desicions/visit. Father's stepdaughter changed his meds at hospital. She is of no blood relation. We are concerned because we three from first marriage have no knowledge when our father was hospitalized until 16 hours after he was admitted to hospital. I am the youngest of 4 children and when I asked to stay with him over night stepdaughter threatend to have me removed. I spoke to hosp. social worker, she told me I could visit as long as dad would agree. Stepmom left angry with me because dad said okay for me to stay. We can no longer go to his home we built. Their son's Pitbull bit stepmom in the mouth. Pit bull is indoors along with son 40, and two other dogs. We think stepmom is over-medicating dad. Food in pantry is Years Old. What are the first family privileges? Can they keep funeral and other important information from us? Everything is done without our knowledge.I don't know if they will let us know when he dies. She is That type of person. She had me kicked out the first night father was hospitalized. I was not on the 'list' at hospital to see him or find any information out.