Hello my step dad has raised us since we were toddlers. My step dad gets a social security check and has dementia. My mom always mistreated him cause he didn't know any better and loved her. She never worked and he managed to take care of all of us. We just found out she put him in a nursing home. He's not capable of signing anything or agreeing to anything and she knows it. We're pretty sure she has doctored up documents and has some kind of power of attorney. She has insurance on him as well. She stopped wanting him decades ago but he couldn't see that. She only stayed cause he was a good provider and didn't have to work. She wouldn't divorce him either knowing she didn't want him years ago. It's all about the little funds he receives. This is why she would never divorce him. If one of us decides to let him live with us how does that work? She will put up a fight I'm sure. She may even have papers stating no one is to go get him from nursing home. I plan to go visit him today. Would we have to pay an attorney to help us get him? She just left him there and has no plans on seeing him. It's like she's waiting on him to pass away. It's very sad. We just want to let him live with us and care for him like he did for us all those years.