My mother is 82, has dementia, and lives with me. I have had her in my home about 1 1/2 yrs and cannot do it any longer. I have found a wonderful assisted living for her. It is perfect for her as they do meds, monitor, three meals a day, etc. The problem is when I inform her she has to go there (because she cannot live on her own in any way shape or form) she will throw a huge fit, as she does when she doesn't like what you say, and say no. Help. Any ideas? She also has OCD so she will obsess over this until I get her in it, so i have to move fast. Thanks for any suggestions or insight.