Hubby is physically lashing out on me. 4 incidents now in 2 months. Thrown into a door twice, slammed hand in door breaking my fingertip, and pushed me down on some bins in front of mirrored wall. Gets in my face, I am called the c word, the b word, told to blow him leave him alone or he will divorce me. Gives me ultimatums and empty threats. Being only caregiver past 3 yrs he is resentful i am trying to take care of him, because he is convinced he can care for himself. He cannot even find his own clothes to wear and barely bathes or changes them anyhow unless I urge him to do it. I am permanently disabled have arthritis, 9 herniated discs, fibromyalgia and sciatica and other health issues. He knocked me to floor hitting by back against door edge yesterdAY when I asked if meds were taken night before. He pretends not to hear me making me repeat my questions but refuses to answer. Will not give me any kind of POA in case I need it for his care. All finances are in his name and I have got to get it to where I am in charge as all bills are being paid late we have a lease to renew and he is not doing capable of making important decisions. His driving is scaring me and my daughter,. Leaves me in pain barely getting around mobility-wise and he thinks it was ok to do it. Says I am always talking and he does't want to hear my mouth, I don't know what this means. He also runs away to be for hours. To keep hinself safe he tells me. He sleeps more than awake. I need help before he kills me in one of his rages. He also should not be working his current job as a mechanic for the airlines as I am concerned since normal tasks are difficult, he has memory loss and is totally disorganized here at home. He cannot complete a task of put together the vacuum properly after he cleans it when finished using it. His dr, is not convinced it is dementia but thinks he has depression. I know it is more than that. I need help.