Between the hours of 10pm until 2am is what I personally call the nightmare hour. Every night is the same, however Friday & Saturday nights it is 3x worse.
He becomes this whole other person it starts off with talking to himself. Wandering around the house "thats right Im an a..h..e", no one gives a rats but about me. Then he starts in on me....calling me the "c" word, a lazy "n" word, constanly putting me down. Then he cusses me out for turning the lights off outside. On Friday & Saturdays he throws objects at me and threatens to injure my dog. The local police has been out to the house on several occations.
At this minute I am sitting in the car parked at the store around the corner from the house crying because I dont want to go home. It is almost 10pm.
Nurses at the hospital has told me those are signs of sundowners. I thought sundowners only occered during the hours the sun goes down between 4pm to 7pm. I could be wrong.
Also Mr.L ha a his mornings and afternoons switched. When it is dinner time, he thinks it is morning and gets angry when I serve him veggies for breakfast. He cant remember what day it is unless he watched the news about 4 hours later he forgets again.
I just dont know how to deal with this behavior....it seems like it is getting worse.