I have posted here several times about my mother and the verbal lashings I get from her on a daily basis. Earlier in life I never really did anything right, but now the dementia has apparently made me steal things, etc. ANYWAYS, she has a visit to her doctor this week and I am writing a letter in advance to him about the state of affairs right now. I will not be able to cope with this much longer. She always tells the doctor everything is FINE, which could not be further from the truth. In the past I have gone along with this because I knew that I would pay the price if I spoke, but now I am wondering if I should just come clean and fess up. I am considering moving out because I am enabling her to remain in this situation. I work 40-hours a week and have a husband. No one takes it seriously because I am living there. Oh and she will not allow me to have much needed help to come in. I wrote a letter to her doctor last time and it did no good whatsoever.