Since nov 11 her father has been in the hospital . she has been careing for her mother 24/7 . She has to take her mother to work with her . has cut her work in half so has lost heath ins. We were planning our wedding but since her father went in the hospital I have seen her for about 30 mins in that time . she don't know where to start for help so I will do it for her . Just looking for ideas as to where to find help .