my mother is narcissistic and has always had a mean streak. she has had dementia for awhile and has had 24 hour caregivers for over a year. her preferred caregiver had to leave and new caregivers were introduced. she has been very abusive to them - ordering them around - yelling, just extremely unpleasant.
i am looking into skilled nursing memory facilities but i am worried because i have read some yelp reviews where people's parents have been evicted for bad behavior.
i am wondering if i should tell the facility of the bad behavior . . . and how do they handle it? i would assume with medications. that is actually the only thing i could imagine working.
you couldn't have yellers in a nursing home upsetting the other patients - so where are they and how are they being handled?
thanks for any ideas. i am at my wit's end.