They make me so angry and stressed sometimes it takes over my life , help! Hi, I'm 33, my dad is 68, when his father died he got depression and then my mum left him, followed by us kids leaving home and him being left alone in the family home. He hit rock bottom and changed. I care for him every day by calling him or taking him out once a week, invite him over, take him on holiday and really worry about him. My sister's do nothing !!! I hate that for it
One makes up excuses that she would help but has given up as it's up to him to change his own life. She says he should take himself off to pottery lessons !! He is sad and lonely and would just like a call but she doesn't do that. She Denys he ever had depression and rubishes it like he should snap out of it. She says it's his life and he sort himself out. I hate her for it , no compassion , I believe if we all pulled out weight and spent time with him it would make him happier but it's just left to me. I look at his phone and it's only me who has called. They give him no thought. It ruins weeks of my life being angry and sad. It makes me feel they are horrible humans who wouldn't care if he died. He did so much for them and was the best dad and because he got ill he changed and they now think he is a loser. Can anyone relate, help ? How do I get rid of the anger !!? I sesetimes tell them off bit ot gets me nowhere !! How can my sister's be so mean ??!!! Lastly my other sister lives tem minutes away from him and only sees him for half an hour once a month at best which I think is terrible !! Maybe I'm wrong buty life is either caring or angry at the moment. Sorry one last thing , the sisters and my mum all go out having holidays together and drinks yet my dad is home alone and they know it but do nothing !!! When I hear it I get so angry and confused how they can all arrange to be together yet they know if spent that time with my dad now and again it would make his life happier !! In summary i I hate them for this and it is making me Ill.