My mom moved in with me four months ago. She had been living with my sister for 19 years. She moved in with her when she had a baby and got divorced. Her son was stealing from my mother and they kept saying my mom has dementia that her son would not do that. I know he was doing drugs to what extent I don't know. Things were tough for my mom and she was very nervous and stressed. I said she could live with me. She said I didn't have the room. I put my two boys in one room and moved her in. We then turned the toy room into a bedroom so they could all have their own rooms.
My sister has complained that she took care of my mother when in fact it was my mother who cooked and cleaned and took care of her kid(s) she remarried and when all this fighting started my mother stopped cooking and cleaning. My nephew needed a car so my sister told my mom she didn't have to give her $600 a month anymore and she told my mom should could use that to get a new car. I feel that now that my sister has no use for my mother she wanted her out.
Her youngest is 11 and my mom took care of him so my sister and her husband could work. My mother gave her 60 K for this new house 12 years ago.Then last year my sister started working from home and only had to go into office once a month. She didn't need my mom to be there for her kid anymore. My other sister wants to put a lien on her house. I honestly don't think legally we could go after her since there is nothing in writing about what or why she gave her the money. Can we put a lien? Can my mother get some money back?