I am in NH as well. I've got care of my Mom weekdays. My youngest sister was given Power of Attorney because my folks felt she had the most free time. So far my Dad died in June and she has done nothing to get Mom Dad's death benefit, insurance money or look into her Veterans' assistance. She encouraged my younger brother to purchase My folks place. ( It was willed to all of us) after it was obvious that Dad was not going to recover from heart attack and stroke. Therefore stripping the rest of us of our share in what little our folks could have left us. She won't show us the books, income or expenses. She pays some of the RX bills but most everything is covered under Medicare anyway. Now she won't ALLOW Mom to buy Christmas presents for Grands and Great-grands, because it would waste her money.