I live in Los Angeles, and my Sister lives in Kentucky. She has her name on his checks - they have "his name or her hame." Because I believe she and her Husband are using my Dad's money as their own, personal piggy-bank, I am very worried. I currently am staying with my Dad in KY, at his house. Tonight she took him somewhere, without consulting me. I had to call around the entire Western KY area, to finally find where she'd taken him. He's been prescribed a sleeping pill, but she won't allow him to take it - she took him to some "quack" in Dixon, who prescribed him Benadryl - which is contra-indicated for the elderly.
What are my rights? Not only do I feel my Sister and her Husband are stealing from my Dad (her Husband just sold his business), but she's making healthcare for my 92 year old Dad, without my input. I love my Dad, and he loves me and he wants me to stay with him, while I'm working in KY for the next month.
My suspicion is that she is trying to make him deemed incompetent to manage his own affairs, and she'll have total control over his life and finances. She's turned into a monster......!! What can I do....?
Thank you - losing sleep in Kentucky.....