My sister and brother-in-law, who is an attorney, secured DPOA from my father, who has Alzheimers. This happened in February and I just found out about it this month. I requested that they provide a copy of this document to myself and my two other sisters. They refused to provide it to any of us. I visited my dad in May (he lives alone, my sister provides care to him but she is one and one-half hours away). He is well physically but his short-term memory is terrible! Systems that have worked ok for the last two years are now failing. (meds, heating meals, etc) He told me he wanted me to help him to find a place to move but my sister refuses to communicate with me. I am in the medical field and she is clueless as to what an appropriate facility would be for dad. I live 2000 miles away. What can I do??