I have dual POA with sister, who will not talk and she wants to move dad to N.C. But he does not want to go-in assisted living. What to do? Our dad has dementia currently in Assisted Living since 8/10/15 and all of his friends in his hometown currently get to see him. My sister who currently controls finances for years is hell bent in getting him to N.C. She even tried last year to do this. I want him to stay in his hometown to see his friends, etc. I hold dual POA with her and she will not wish to talk about it with us. She even tried to take him out last year and move him to N.C. - to no avail - now the game has started again with her. She thinks her husband is also actually part of the family and we are stuck in this situation. What do we do? Thanks in Advance.