My Mom was diagnosed with ALZ last November. She has lived out of state in an AL facility for about a year now. My younger sister lives in the same town so the brunt of my Mothers care has fallen on her.
She, my sister, has told me that she is done and says she wants my Mother to be moved to my state, into an AL Facility or our younger brothers state. For some reason the undertone I am hearing is it SHOULD be me to take care of my Mom. We ALL have young children and my Mother has never taken care of herself. So she requires a lot of care. My Mother's family phones it in and offers no help what-so-ever.
I’m not sure what to do. I feel like I don’t have a choice. I worry that I won’t be able to handle it. I’m at a total loss.