Oh Boy ---- Where do I start?
I am so hurt and don't have any idea what to do from here.
People (some of my mother's tenants) and (others who get phone calls from my mother and sister - together) have actually been coming or calling me. They tell me some of things that have been going on: behind my back: for a while now.
My NM now has my golden child sister (who never visited before) has been occasionally visiting her. It sounds great and I always thank my sister all the time for being decent to our mother.
About a month ago, my sister surprised me with a visit to 'me'!
We talked..... or more specifically -- I TALKED about:
*my troubles with my mother
* how I can't stand my NM sometimes
* that I love her but I don't like her personality
* me being in debt by trying to pay all mom's bills with only a few rents
* NM being so mean to me and so paranoid about everyone
* my sister getting me to my mother's house so we could all have
family meal together.. If sister is willing to drive me home after.
* why mom is always and so cruel & mean to me but so nice to her
* that I don't think mom should be driving and I have been trying to
get her off the road before she kills someone
* etc. etc.
My sister was here for quite a few hours. She recorded our entire sister-to-sister talk and then played back anything; to my mother; that might appear damaging to me!
Needless to say, I have been getting a lot of backlash from my mother who thinks that I hate her, etc. etc.
What am I supposed to do?