My sister-in-law is a co-DPOA with my husband for their parents. Their mom and dad had to move to an assisted living home as ordered by APS because they could not take care of themselves. My in-laws told my son he could live there if he just paid the utilities and kept up the lawn care so their house wasn't vacant. My son just moved here from another state. To make my son and his family move out of the house, My sister-in-law didn't tell my husband, but she had their parents sign papers to sell their house. They did not know what they were signing. Is that legal for her to do? Also, we checked their bank account and saw she purchased a COSTCO membership card for herself for $110. with a check from her parent's checking account. She never purchases things there for her parents. Also, she wrote another check from their account for her grass to be mowed. When we told her she shouldn't be spending our parent's money for that, she was upset that we looked into the parent's account. We checked a week later, and she took all the money out of their money market account and lots of money out of their checking account. When my husband approached her, she said she wouldn't tell him where the money went as she didn't trust him!! Isn't this exploitation of her parents finances? Just wondering. My husband has never taken any money from his parents in the 44 years we have been married. Thanks for any responses.