My mother in law gave POA to her oldest son, however, his wife hates our mother in law and provokes her to justify why she and her Husband want nothing to do with her. They are planning to drug our mother in law and while she is sedated, to put her in their car and dump her in an ALF. They state that she has no money and that they had to take a 2nd mortgage out on their home to pay for the ALF however, there should be tens of thousands of dollars in my mother in laws account. They are angry at my husband and I because we are "not on the same page and are undermining them." My Husband is being put in a position now choosing his Mother or the rest of his family. They claim to be practicing Catholics, yet they see nothing immoral or unethical with their behaviors. I want to involve APS. My sister in law will stop over our mother in laws house, provoke her, speak to her in a condescending, disrestful manner, yet if our mother in laws says anything back to her, my sister in law runs to her husband claiming that our mother in law threatened her, and is abusive. How cruel that she pits her Husband against his own mother. My mother in law should have been placed in an ALF years ago, but my nasty sister in law would not allow it, as the 5 year Medicaid look back was up April 2017. My sister in law has torn this family apart over greed. Not only is my mother in law emotionally and financially abused by my sister in law, but she is also alienated from family events by my sister in law, such as a bridal show for one of her granddaughters, a baby shower, and a wedding. Should I go against my husband and his whole family to do what is right?