I have been posting on here about things happening with my father. Recently my SIL asked for money but she is not understanding what I am telling her, that my father needs that money for his care. I first said that I can send half, I never said that I will send it or that it is on it's way, but things have changed with my father since telling her that and I can't send any because he needs it and it’s morally wrong. I have POA and even though I verbally told her I can send it, I have the right to change my mind as I need to do what is in his best interest, not hers. Yesterday, she responded to the text I sent her on wednesday saying that I can't send any money, I went into great detail as to why, she said she is disappointed with how the situation turned out, that she trusted my word that I would send it, that I left her in a tough spot as she has signed a contract and hired a contractor to do the repairs. Why is that my father’s responsibility? I really hope that she wouldn’t be so evil as to have hired the contractor AFTER I told her no and push this on him to make him responsible.
She is not going to let up and is going to fight me on this, she needs to ask her relatives for help and back off. I can’t have her written out of the Living Trust because my father would never agree to that and my brother asked my dad to give her his inheritance, but I had no idea that she was such a selfish, greedy, unfeeling, b*****. If my brother was here, he would agree with me and would stop this. I know that he is really sad watching from above what is happening
Does anyone have any ideas about how I can handle this?