She has good insurance and is 65 years old. She is a hoarder and refuses to take care of her physical and mental health. She goes weeks and even months without bathing or combing her hair and until recently under my initiation went to evaluate her physical health. What disturbs me most is that she has control over my living 86 yr old Mother with Alzheimer's bank accounts who has three other children myself included.
Please help with any suggestions you may have as to how I can help her!!