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My parents had a will drawn up in 2005, making my brother POA, he passed, making me POA, then my youngest sister. In 2008 she had an eldercare attorney draw up new papers making her POA. Since then, she moved all their money, $300,000.00 into her accounts, sold many of my parents items, collected money for their care, which I have been here with my mother 24/7 since her fall in 2014. My mother at the time had severe delirium, d/t a thyroid storm, and my father was dx with dementia.
Now that the money is gone, and she collects for her care, which she may show up once a week if I'm lucky, has given me orders to pay the bills!!!
I don't know what to do! I am mainly sad mother who was so good to everyone, has to end her life like this.....it is just killing me. I don't mind taking care of her at all, like many others, just fear for the future, and want her to be happy....:'(

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my mothers the only one who has been truly kind to me.....will not let her down.
sister came over and harassed her for almost 2 hours after not seeing her in over 2 weeks.
she is angry with me, and now says she's not paying the bills, on top of everything else.....
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yes, I have. Done years ago. 2008. But at the time father had alzheimers, and mother had severe delirium.
Seriously just exhausted with day to day chores.
Then things keep coming up, that she hid.
I myself just went thru a divorce, have osteoarthritis, chronic fatigue and a slipped disk, trying to move things in home bc I never have help..... I just don't want problems, and my other siblings have passed away...... just sad....
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yes, I have. Done years ago. 2008. But at the time father had alzheimers, and mother had severe delirium.
Seriously just exhausted with day to day chores.
Then things keep coming up, that she hid.
I myself just went thru a divorce, have osteoarthritis, chronic fatigue and a slipped disk, trying to move things in home bc I never have help..... I just don't want problems, and my other siblings have passed away...... just sad....
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Your sister can't just see a lawyer and make herself POA. Have you seen the papers?
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Its a crime. Call the police, report the crime as "Elder Abuse".
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