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My mother has dementia & my father died 12 mths ago. My father died 14 months ago and my sister was on my parents checking account. She never contacted his pension with a death certificate and she has been collecting his pension for the last 14 months signing his name on the checks sent to my parent's address. I found out last month, finally putting my mom in a nursing home and becoming her power of attorney. My mother has last stages of dementia and has no recollection of anything. There is no money left in the checking account, sister took everything. Now the pension company of course wants the pension money returned that was sent to my father/mother in the last 14 months. What should I do since I am my mother's power of attorney. My sister will not payback the pension money said she needed for care for my mom. Help I do not want to be responsible for over $5,000 in repayment since I had no clue this was happening.

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Going out on a limb here...signing someone elses name on a check is fraud, even if the pension was supposed to continue after death. This is a crime. Even if the mother was entitled to a larger pension herself after his death, the check with the greater amount would come in her name as a survivor benefit, not his as a pension. Usually the funeral home handles alerting the pension holder (often the government) but if there is no funeral home involved, the estate should have done this. She will be ordered to repay or serve time. It's a clear case of fraud. Ignorance of the law is not a free pass.

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From what you describe, you are not responsible - your sister is. If you are in receipt of correspondence from the insurance company, write a clear letter stating that you are the newly appointed POA (how did that happen if your Mom has late stage dementia?) . The insurance company WILL pursue this and I am guessing, your sister will have to pay it all back. If your Mom has no real resources and is on Medicaid, it seems that your sister can deal with the insurance company.

Who was the executor of your Dad's estate? That is the person who should have reported his death to the insurance company.
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In the US the company could either demand repayment or have your sister arrested for fraud. I would consider myself lucky if they allowed me to repay, instead of put me in jail.
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It could be treated as an honest mistake - some widows do continue to receive a spouses pension - but it would probably depend on your sisters willingness to face up to the situation. As others have stated she will probably be charged with a crime if she doesn't.
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Annie, Angel raises an important issue. Was your sister, as I understood from your original post, actually forging your father's name, and was his the sole name on the check?
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Follow GeeWhiz's instructions to notify the company managing the pension; send the notification by certified mail, return receipt requested, and make sure the post office provides that receipt. They goof up periodically and you have to follow up with them.

Advise them as well that you only recently were appointed proxy under the DPOA and prior to that time had no knowledge of the theft (assuming that's true).

If you did have knowledge before you gained access to the records, you could be considered an accessory, possibly after the fact.

I'm curious - how did the pension holder find out - did you notify them?

The company managing the pension will get records from the bank with copies of the endorsement to confirm that it was your sister's signature, then contact her demanding repayment.

If she can't, or refuses, they may sue, depending on whether she has assets or is judgment proof (they could attach her assets and/or place a lien on real property she owns), but they probably also will notify local police for prosecution.

Proving fraud was committed relies an element of "intent", i.e., the person must have known he or she was committing fraud and intended to do so. Given that she presumably would have known your father had died, that element is in existence.

What the penalties would be I don't know; it may depend on the amount of total theft whether it's a misdemeanor or felony.
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Thank you for your help in this matter. I was appointed POA along with another sister over two years ago. The POA was not used until my mother went into a nursing home. This is when I found out about the pension and my other sister notified the pension fund. My mother was executor of my Dad's estate. I was under the impression that the pension would continue only by contacting the fund did I find out that once my father died the pension ended with his death. This is when I found out that my sister was cashing the checks.
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Thank you so much for your help in this matter. I will be writing a certified letter to the fund, as well as sending a copy to my sister. We will then see if the &%^# hits the fan.
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RainMom does raise an important point. If your sister didn't have access to any pension documentation, or understand the terms, she might not have been aware that it didn't continue after your father's death.

I recall this was the situation with my sister's state pension fund. I had to do some research and read the voluminous, difficult to read documents as well as get information from the state to figure out which pension option she had chosen.

It could actually have been that kind of situation, which I hope it was, for sister's sake.

When you write your letter, be careful to draw any conclusions; just state the facts, but I would also ask for copies of ALL executed documents relating to your father's pension.
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I honestly doubt if the pension fund wants to press criminal charges and the hassle that comes with. They would probably be happy to look the other way - providing they get their money back.
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