I changed screen name, but here's the deal. Dad has 4 months of Mom's IRA, $600. a month and then it's his Social Sec.. I'm caregiver, 3 1/2 years Mom and Dad. 2 1/2 years Dad. Dad has dementia with occasional anger. Siblings will need to put in $600. to $700. a month divided by 2. When Dad passes away they want to be reimbursed for what $$$ they put in. So that is approx. $ 7200, a year, If Dad lives, say 3 more years. That's $ 21,600. taken off the sale of Dad's house, but they split it. POA sib had already tried to get me to pay $ 200. a month because I live in Dad's house free. I do everything for Dad. Shop, cook, clean, laundry, bed, meds., Doctors and whatever else needs to be done. Oh, I do all the outdoor jobs. Just the yard would be $ 45. a week. So, I told POA I wanted whatever they want reimbursed as well. Not from the beginning 6 years ago, but from whenever they start. My Aunt, Mother's sister has already told one sib they should be very grateful for me after he tried to tell her I did not keep Dad clean enough. He comes over for 2-3 hours every 2-3 months. Mom knew what was expected from her and Dad financially toward me, but they did not have the $$$. I wanted to help, so I didn't want any $$$ at all. POA did take over the bills and financial duties 3 months ago. I thought it was to help me, but has changed everything. Mom's rolling over in her grave. I now pay for this and that on $ 904. a month Social Sec. I'm unable to increase my Social Sec. because of being Caregiver and not working and adding to it from a job outside the home. Neither sib is going to like my decision, but I feel like I am being used. They think I should pay to live here and be caregiver!!! Our Aunt has volunteered to tell them both what she thinks and I am going to let her. I told POA we should get a mediator if he wanted, because after all I've done I don't see getting less than sibs doing nothing for 6 years and now have to put in $300, a month and they both are well off.