I guess I should not complain but my siblings and I talked before dad moved in with me. My sister lives 7 hours a way, we used to talk once a month. Its been a few months and I only heard from her twice. My brother used to work for my dad now he wont even take his calls (he has called twice since dad moved in). Not sure if I should be grateful that I don't have them breathing down my neck? Dad didn't have the most close relationship with the older siblings, my sister calls him once a week. Its not like I hit the lottery with dad moving in, it costs me money each week and I am in the hole for income this year due to all the expenses driving back and forth 5 states for the past year taking care of him and cleaning out the house. Dad doesn't provide any money to my house (I haven't asked him either). it's not like its a big drain yet, just electric and food. It would be nice if they called and at least offered to talk. I'm really stressed out, it would be nice to have a family member who cared. Mom apparently was the glue to the family, now she is gone and we kind of fragmented. I'm afraid to call my sister as she can be pretty nasty while being nice to your face. Some minor issues occurred while we were all stressed over the clean out but they seemed to be cleared up quickly. The clean out except for help was amicable, everyone got what they wanted, no fighting over anything, everyone had their say in items they wanted. Most things no one wanted anyway. I got stuck with moving the majority of his stuff to my home and am still in limbo (cant get into half of my garage and I had to sell and give away things of mine to get dads in plus uproot me from my at home office for my business. Dad looked to me to handle everything, they got off easy. I guess I could be considered lucky but it would be nice to hear from them once in a while. I have had one call from my sister "hows it going with dad" While he was in ear shot I couldn't say how it was really and I am sure she'd blab to him anyway. Things get taken out of context. The biggest issue is now there is no home to go back to, my brother lives there but no one could ever visit him (lives like a pack rat). Guess I should not be unhappy but I feel all alone now. (Thank god for my wife and kids).