My mom suffered a debilitating stroke almost 3 years ago, after a family meeting(9 of us) most of us thought a nursing home would be best, due to most of us working and a few from out of state, my dad left my mom financially stable and we believed she would get the best care, my younger siblings did not agree, my mom has always taken care of them financially and they did not want to lose access to the money, however, we made the arrangements and had my mom put in a remarkable place, she has been there for over a year and a half and doing well, she has gained weight and has a good relationship with the 8 other residents in her house, I was going everyday and having lunch with her and reading the paper, and the visits were nice most of the time, she had good and bad days and this was to be expected, my younger siblings would not visit her at first because they were angry her money was being used for the Nursing Home, they started coming around, however, they have told her I have all her money and personal items and got rid of everything! I am POA and I have to account for every dime for Social Security, etc. and as far as her personal things, she has most of her things in her room and whatever was left is in storage containers in my basement, the last few weeks while I was visiting with my mom she accused me of taking everything, even things that were still in her room, there was no reasoning with her, and the visits got more nasty, the last time I was there she told me that my brother told her I stole a baseball......she proceeded to call me all kinds of names and told me to get out and never come back! I am upset that my mom feels this way and I know her mind is not sharp and sometimes does not realized what she is saying is so hurtful, I am more upset that my siblings could be so evil, all because the money is no longer at their disposal. I am fortunate to have some siblings who back me and are aware of the situation, my mom is alright with them. I have not been back to visit in over two weeks, I don't want her getting all upset and anxious and there is another part of me that just want to call my siblings and raise some issues and yet that seems fruitless.