Well after almost having a nervous breakdown from caring for my late father and my mother with alzheimers for the last 18 months, my brothers finally stepped in and took mom off my hands for a few days while I get some rest.
While on the phone with one of my brothers a bit ago he mentioned something about the bank accounts and why I had so many. After dad passed (A year ago) I opened up new ones with mine and mom's name on them. Well, apparently they took mom to the bank and convinced the bank manager to give them copies of the bank statements. The bank HAS ON FILE and legal documents of me being DPOA and that mom was incapacitated and could not make decisions. The bank did it anyway? Is this legal? Not that I really care if they see what's on them or not... I've told them many times I can't spend her money on anything but her ( I don't think they believed me)...not as if I go anywhere anyway to spend anything on either of us!
It's a damn shame that the past 18 months I've almost killed myself with stress/worry and lack of sleep that it took me flipping out on them for them to help me...But sneaking around to the bank is not helping me...
Why do I get the feeling that something else is going on?