Mom 71 with moderate dementia. I have 1 brother who is married lives in the Bldg next door. Mom was there for him and everyone. She was so supportive. He stops in to see her approx 2-3 times per year. I work in a hospital full time. My brother does not visit, does not offer to help. All her retirement. Social security goes to Medicaid. I support her financially and care for her. I have had discussions, arguments both him and his wife for years. No help whatsoever. They visit when she is in the hospital. go figure!! So frustrating, because people always ask about my brother. My brother will visit if a visitor comes from out of town, I guess to show face. I have had resentment because my life is no life. I am literally in this journey by myself. I don’t understand how my brother can live with himself, it’s disgusting.