My father has since then passed. My mother is left. They had approx $400,000.00. Now my mom is close to Medicaid. They both have had medicare and humana throughout their illnesses and most of the medical has been paid excpet when they were in the donut hole. This money is now gone. Mom is 1-2 years away from medicaid, I know there is no leger for the expense of this money. My silbing did use the money for groceries, home improvements, her and her childrens care insruances etc. Mom stayed with both of us off and on before entering an assisted living 2 years ago. Mom still makes approximately 2,200 a month in retirement. Now my sibling wants me to sign dual POA's and mom has a dementia. I have some major reservations. I just do not feel the funds were used solely for my parents and wisely.