Has not been involved or cognizant of the daily and weekly details, has now decided to take over, w new partner,, without any consultation as to current care needs. Is causing confusion and distress. Am I upset that I have not been consulted (I have arranged all care since learning of dementia 1 - 2 years ago) or am I more knowledgeable about needs and how to watch for parent's happiness? How do we develop an offical care plan w parent now, if everyone thinks they know best? I was about to bring in a nurse to do an in-home assessment (parent still lives at home), thoughts?